Nov 18 2008

Searching True Love

Searching For “LOVE”

In the ancient times till our this modern world, most people are still searching for the Perfect Love between two person.

Is there such so called Perfect Love?

Nothing is PERFECT IN THIS WORLD.

It can be near to perfection, if two person can be unselfish to share their ideas, learn to give and take at all times, not only to love your companion but also their family members, be honest to friends and associates, budget well because financial problems is also another obstacle, always be mindful at all times to people, than you will discover Love.

Fill your heart with understanding and Love.

It is an universal practice that people are searching for Love, for that special connection with another person.

The ultimate goal is to find a suitable companion whom, simply by their presence, inspires us to be a better person.

But true Love does not enter into our lives when we find the ideal Lover. Practically, you wish to look for the perfect person, but they do not exist.

All you know that people in this world are flawed, it is the mark of the Human condition and true Love is found when we become skilled at seeing a flawed person perfectly.

How can you do this?

By learning to live your life with Love. No amount of honed intellect, creative intelligence or inspired imagination can bring you the experience of Love.

Love prompts intellect, intelligence and imagination into actions, but they cannot reveal the nature of Love.

To understand the nature of Love, it is simply to be loving. Life wants to give you everything that it can, but it only respond if you express Love.

What most people need to learn in life is how to Love people and make use of things instead of loving things and exploiting people.

What matter is not how much or even what you do, but how much Love you put into doing. Everyone you meet, in every station in life, provides you with an opportunity for Love.

You find it in an uncomplicated act of kindness towards someone who need help. You can experience it in a casual conversation or in a moment of warmth from a stranger.

If you grow to be excessively overhelmed or obsessed with Love, you miss the reality that Love can reveal to you.

If you calmly and serenely acknowledge Love, Love will take refuge in your life and talk to you in soft constant words offering wisdom and comfort.

From this point you will be ready to find another human being with whom you will bond deeply and profoundly.

This intimate easiness of Love between two human beings cannot be discovered by searching for it or by craving for it.

It is spiritual evolution creating divine coincidence. Do not search for Love. You already have it. When you do find Love, remember that you cannot look for guarantees.

Only fear wants guarantee for from the prospective of fear, nothing is strong enough. From the stance of Love, none are needed. Finally do not forget to Love yourself.

Love is the sighting of ourselves in others, and without loving yourself, it is impossible to love another.

Never look to others to make you feel whole, worthwhile or loveable for only you can do that.

Be devoted to your own inner consciousness that exists in your heart, mind, speech, deeds and beliefs.

By doing this you become your own person and take charge of yourself.